I Know I’m Supposed to Weave In the Ends, But I Don’t Always Do It.

When we learned to knit, it was basically carved in stone that you need to weave in the ends on every project. Even if it makes us die a little inside, we try to follow the rule. Sometimes on a project with a lot of ends, we weave them in as we go to spread the misery across time. 

Once I made the cutest striped sweater with all my leftover yarns from Wonder Woman projects. It used about 10 different yarns in red, yellow, blue, and white. I was so glad I wove the ends in as I went. There were too many to tie, it would have been lumpy. And with so many ends to do at once, I know I wouldn’t have done it. That cute striped sweater would have lived in my “to finish” pile forever.

If we hate weaving in ends so much, why don’t we just break that rule? I think we’re afraid that we aren’t “real” knitters if we don’t follow the rules. Or maybe we think that if we know and follow all the rules it proves that we are Good Knitters. But no one is giving out trophies for that.

We all know what will happen if we don’t do it. We’ll be strutting around showing off our gorgeous hand knit sweaters dotted with holes and have yarn tails streaming out behind us. 

We could tie a knot instead of weaving the ends in. But it could come undone someday. It could migrate to the right side of the work. It’s tacky to tie knots in your knitting. At least, that’s what the Knitting Police say.

I say we can do what we want with our ends! I have a couple of smaller shawls that I wear around my neck bandana-style. I’ve worn them for years and still haven’t woven in the ends. If you look at the backside of them, you’ll see all the ends taped down with clear packing tape- I didn’t even tie knots!

I never weave in ends if they’re not going to show. I tie a bow and double knot it on the inside of a sweater, leaving the tails long. The double-knotted bow is less likely to migrate to the front of the work, and the long tails mean that if it ever comes undone I can tie it again. It works like a charm when I join a new ball of yarn, but too bulky for stripes. I understand all the whys and hows of weaving in the ends. That’s why I know exactly how to get around it.

I don’t always skip out on weaving in my ends. When I make a gift for someone, I finish it beautifully. And I’m happy to do it. A handmade gift is such an act of love, I want every detail to show it. I want the recipient to wear their new knit with pride, not ask me why it’s taped on the backside. 

It is important to learn the Rules of Knitting. If you decide to knit an heirloom sweater or baby blanket, those rules for professional finishing are going to elevate the piece. And knowing the rules means you’ll recognize when you can get away with breaking them.

The Sleeves Don’t Match!

Something’s going out the window, the sweater or the pattern! I had no choice. There was no way I could knit the sleeves according to the pattern. Knitting the body of this cardigan had already stretched my patience to its breaking point.

A couple months earlier, I’d been browsing Ravelry for shawl collar inspiration when I came across a cardigan I had to have. I usually prefer to make up my own patterns, but this thing was stunning. When I got an email a few days later that the pattern was on sale, I assumed the universe was reminding me about it.

Naturally.

I wound up and weighed every pink and green yarn I had and was ready to cast on. It didn’t occur to me that the convoluted technique could be anything other than straightforward and simple, like the pattern and video suggested. (Why didn’t the need for a video tip me off? That should have been a red flag.)

I managed to finish the body. Switching two colors every single row and tying them in knots was super annoying, but the fabric was gorgeous. I’d stop every couple inches just to stare at it. I pictured myself wearing this speckled sweater with a luxurious shawl collar constantly. I was going to live in it.

Then I got to the sleeves.

This wasn’t regular sleeve island. The wacky technique from the body doesn’t transfer, so instead we get an even more convoluted technique. Also with tons of knots. Except these ones are visible on the surface of the sweater. (I don’t care what the video says. I’ve been knitting over 20 years and my experience was vastly different than their claims.)

There was absolutely zero chance I was finishing this sweater if I stuck to the pattern.

So I decided to knit striped sleeves. At least I’d end up with a complete sweater. Unlike half of Reddit, who abandoned this project with passion. (Too bad I didn’t google it sooner.)

But I didn’t just knit striped sleeves. I knit each sleeve with completely different random stripes, so they don’t match each other.

A couple people suggested I try to make the stripes blend in with the body so the sleeves wouldn’t stand out. (Have you met me?! I do not blend in.) I worked way too hard holding onto my sanity during this project for the finished sweater not to reflect my personality.

When I finally finished it, I hated it.

Not how it looked. I personally hated it. Like it had done me wrong.

It took a few weeks before my hate softened and I could bring myself to wear it. I wish I’d made one size bigger in the shoulders, but overall it fits well enough to wear. People compliment it every time. Someone once asked if it was Free People, and since they buy a lot of Free People, I took that as a win.

Most people love the speckled look. Plenty notice the sleeves. Any sweater that doesn’t make me blend in is a success in my book.

Trusting myself is always the right decision. I know how much convoluted technique I can tolerate, and I know how much I love a truly unique piece. I’m so glad I finished this sweater my way.

Imagine if this gorgeous, sleeveless pain in the ass was stuffed in a bag in my closet forever.

Where’s the fun in that?

Striped Cat Hat Knitting Pattern

Here’s the cutest cat beanie knitting pattern! Don’t want Cheshire Cat stripes? This pattern is just as cute in a solid color. Or in the colors of your actual cat if you want to be twins! 

This cat hat knitting pattern can be part of your Halloween costume or cosplay, but you can also just wear a cute cat hat on a random Wednesday. Why limit your cuteness?

My favorite part is the construction of the ears. They are knit directly onto your finished beanie, so no sewing. And they are shaped so that they stand up on their own, you’ll never look like a droopy kitty. 

Go ahead, knit yourself up a whole litter of beanies!

Sizes: child (adult)

Finished measurements:  18.5 in/46.25 cm (20 in/50 cm) circumference

Gauge: 21.5 sts and 31 rounds = 4 in (10 cm)

Materials:

  • Yarn: color A (purple) 70 yd (66 m), color B (pink) 75 yd (69 m)
  • Needles: US 8 16-in circular needle and dpns, or size needed to obtain gauge

Notions: yarn needle, 5 stitch markers

Downtime Shawl Knitting Pattern

This is the Downtime Shawl. It’s an easy triangle shawl knitting pattern that happens to be gorgeous to wear. It’s a side-to-side triangle shawl with maximum squish. All that cozy squishiness comes from alternating sections of slipped stitches and garter stitch.

Wear it to keep your neck warm or to add a handmade touch to your outfit. This shawl does both without even breaking a sweat. No one will believe it when you tell them how easy it was to knit!

My favorite part is how a cleverly placed stitch marker moves with your work, so you never have to keep track of what row you’re on. You can literally pick it up in your downtime and knit a little without wasting time.

This pattern + a variegated yarn that’s super soft = your new favorite shawl. Don’t blame me if all your friends ask for one!

Sizes: one size

Finished measurements: 57in (145cm) wide, 26.25in (67cm) tall

Gauge: 23 sts and 40 rows in 4in in garter st

Materials:

  • Yarn: fingering weight, 800yd
  • Needles: US 4 24-in circular
  • Notions: 1 stitch marker, yarn needle

How to Make Every Knitting Project an Heirloom

Over the last two decades I’ve knit more projects than I can count. I’ve also dropped plenty of my hand knits off at Goodwill.

I don’t regret any of the projects I didn’t keep because they made me the knitter I am today. However, these days I’m not interested in knitting anything that isn’t worth keeping. Here’s I’m a list of things I’m doing to ensure all my knits going forward are heirloom quality.

  1. Use the highest quality yarn you can afford. Things to consider when choosing yarn: Will this get fuzzy or pill with wear? Does it have enough elasticity to hold its shape over time? Will it create the type of fabric you want for this project?
  2. Choose your pattern wisely. It’s okay to choose a trendy pattern for an heirloom, everything comes back in style! A vintage knit will be a treasure when it comes back around. But it is important to keep the construction of the pattern in mind. Knitting a sweater in the round is quick and easy, but seams help the sweater hold it’s shape in the long run.
  3. Use proper finishing techniques. Join new colors and weave in ends without tying knots. Over the span of generations, a knot can come undone but a well-woven tail will stay in place forever.
  4. Take the time to ensure a good fit. It doesn’t matter how long it lasts if you don’t like the way it fits.
  5. Hand wash with the right soap. Even if the yarn says you can put it in the washing machine, you should hand wash. Use a soap made for hand washing knits, like Eucalan or Soak. Block the items back to the original measurements while drying.
  6. Store seasonal items clean and safe in the off season. Take the time to protect your knits from moths! Once the item is clean and dry, seal it in a zip top plastic bag, freeze for a few days, then store it in its bag until it is back in season.
  7. Treat your hand knits like the heirlooms they are. Don’t tie an heirloom sweater around your waist or use a hand knit throw as a picnic blanket.

What have I overlooked? I’d love to know how you elevate your knits to heirloom status!

How to Crochet a Tiny Star With Sharp Points in One Round

These little stars are so fun to make! ⭐️ I learned this method sometime in the 00s from a blog called Wild About Color. The link is still in my bookmarks, but unfortunately the blog is no longer there.

I went online looking to refresh my memory and guess what? None of the tutorials I found produced the nice pointy points of this method. So, here you go! May this crochet star method live on for another round of hookers!

A red sweatshirt sleeve with crochet stars on the cuff.

I like to use these tiny crochet stars as appliqués. You could also make them into a garland, tie them on packages, glue them on hair clips…the possibilities are endless!

Here are the written instructions to crochet your own tiny stars. There’s also a video at the bottom of this post if you want to see the whole process. Heads up- the video doesn’t have any instructions- it’s just me crocheting a star in case you need a visual.

Materials: yarn of your choice and an appropriate size hook, yarn needle to weave in ends (optional- you can just tie a knot and cut the tails if you’re gluing it to something)

Skills: Magic ring, single crochet, double crochet, chain stitch, slip stitch (US terms)

{all steps are worked into the magic ring- this is a one-round project}

  1. Start with a magic ring. Pull up a loop and ch1.
  2. Make a point: sc, dc, ch2, slip stitch into the bump on the back of the second chain stitch from the hook, dc.
  3. Repeat step 2 four more times to make 5 points of the star.
  4. Cut yarn, leaving a 4-inch tail, and pull the yarn all the way through the last stitch.
  5. Pull the end of the magic ring to close the center.
  6. Pull the yarn tail to bring the last point and the first point of the star together.
  7. Now you can choose if you want to use a yarn needle and weave in the ends, or just tie the ends together and cut the tails off.

Here’s a video if you want to see me crochet a star:

I hope you have fun crocheting a galaxy of tiny stars with perfectly pointy points!

DIY Tassel Stitch Markers Tutorial

A rainbow of tassel stitch markers on a knitting needle.

Gather Supplies

These DIY tassel stitch markers make a fun little project with an adorable and useful end result. There’s a good chance you have everything you need on hand already! You’ll need “lightbulb” pins, embroidery floss (you could probably use lace weight yarn, too), scissors, and something to wrap the yarn around – I used a lip balm tube.

Create a Bundle of Loops

First, wrap the floss around your lip balm about 5 times.

Next,cut the thread and slide it off the lip balm. Be sure to pinch the whole bundle to keep all the loops intact.

Attach to Pin

Then slide an open pin through the center of your thread bundle. Position the thread at the small end of the closed pin, with the cut ends of the thread at the bottom (away from the pin).

Now, use a short piece of thread to tie a double knot around the bundle, make it nice and tight and right up against the end of the pin. Make sure to use a long enough thread that the tails will be the same length as your tassel when you’re done.

I didn’t like the way one tail from my knot stuck up insead of hanging down with the rest of the tassel. Here’s the fix if it bothers you, too. Push a needle through the knot from top to bottom.

Thread the offending tail through the eye of the needle and pull the needle down through the knot. Now all the threads are neatly in the direction of the tassel.

Trim the Tassel

Finally, cut the loops of your thread bundle so it finally looks like a tassel.

The ends won’t necessarily look nice at this point. Take your scissors and give it a trim.

Now you have an adorable stitch marker for your collection!

Why not make a whole set!?!

If you’re looking for more quick projects, check out my knit hair ties or knit scrunchie tutorials.

Knit Lampshade Trim: Makeover for a Boring Ikea Lampshade

trimmed lampshade

Have you ever had the solution to one problem cause another? This knit lampshade trim is the last (hopefully!) in a long line of problems caused by previous solutions.

It all started when I decided to have 5 kids… 🤣 Just kidding! But seriously, I have a tiny house for a family of seven and my monstera was taking up way too much space in front of the only available window.

Solution 1: move the giant plant into a dark corner. Now the poor baby gets no light. Unfortunately, she really enjoys photosynthesis.

Solution 2: dig out an ugly Ikea lampshade and hanging cord that no one is using and slap a plant bulb in it. Now I have an ugly lampshade hanging in my living room! 😫

Solution 3: knit colorful trim and give the lampshade some personality!

So here we are. It was super easy, I’ll tell you what I did.

Lampshade before adding knit trim

Measure the Lampshade

First, I didn’t even bother taking down the shade to measure it. I just semi-carefully measured around the bottom edge of the shade. It was 52 inches.

Measuring lampshade for trim

Knit the Trim

Second, I looked online for a knit trim pattern that I liked. I chose this one, and bookmaked a handful of others so I can create my own motley collection of lampshades in the future.

knitting the trim

Next, it didn’t take me too long to knit the trim. I purposely chose leftover yarn that was a heavy worsted and used US9 needles. This was definitely meant to be a quick and easy project! (If you don’t have cute little sheets to keep track of your projects, you can get the one in the picture in my free Merry Knitter’s Bundle of Fun here. It also includes an exclusive shawl pattern and 2 phone wallpapers.)

knit trim on blocking board

I did take the time to block my trim, I’m not a total slacker. A nice straight edge elevates the whole project.

knit trim ready to apply

Glue on the Lampshade Trim

Finally, armed with a 53-inch length of knit trim, I was ready to make over my boring lampshade! I did take it down for this part so I wouldn’t have to fight gravity as much. It only took about 5 minutes and a hot glue gun. I started on the front of the lampshade, with the middle of the trim, so the seam in the trim would line up with the seam in the back of the lampshade. If you own a hot glue gun, I don’t have to tell you to glue a couple inches at a time while the glue is hot. You could also use fabric glue – and probably good old craft glue – but you’ll have to wait for the glue to dry before you can hang it back up. I don’t have that kind of patience.

final knit trim project

Overall, I’m very happy with this project. I may even put in 5 more minutes of effort one of these days to spot-clean the lampshade! 🤣

close up of knit lampshade trim

If you’re looking for a good yarn for your lampshade trim, I recommend Knit Picks Swish. It’s not as heavy as the scrap yarn I chose, but it has just a tiny bit of sheen to it that I think would look nice. Are you inspired to add knit trim to everything? You can see how to knit trim directly on to a knitting project here.

The 5 Essential Knitting Tools

Here are my 5 essential knitting tools, a minimalist knitting kit if you will. These are the items I absolutely must have in my project bag if I’m not at home knitting.

The 5 Essential Knitting Tools

1. Foldable scissors. Obviously we need to be able to cut our yarn. I’ve used other tools in the past, but now that I have these I’ll never go back. When I used small scissors with a little protective cover on the end it would fall of in my bag. Not helpful. Then I tried a pendant yarn cutter. I was worried that my WIP would get caught on it and get cut when I pulled it out. Yarn cutting pendants are super cool for wearing, but I don’t keep one in my bag anymore. (The adorable clippy charm on my scissors is from Yank Your Yarn.)

2. A darning needle. You may know that I don’t always weave in my ends 😬, but I always keep a yarn needle with me. If I seriously mess something up and need to put stitches on waste yarn, the darning needle is a must. Sometimes I’ll finish a project on the go and the only thing left to occupy my time is to weave in the ends. And, finally, if a loose end starts showing on the knit I’m wearing, I can grab the yarn needle from my project bag and weave it in! 🤣

3. Removable stitch markers. These can be lifesavers. If I notice a dropped stitch, I’ll catch it with a stitch marker until I get back to it on the next row. I use them to mark rows so it’s easier to go back and count later. When fixing a mistake a few rows down, I’ll hold the live stitches on either side with stitch markers so I don’t drop them. Which brings us to…

4. A stitch fixing tool. This little tool has a hook on one end and a point on the other. I use it frequently. You could just keep a crochet hook in your kit, but it’s kind of nice to have a smaller tool to keep your essential kit compact.

5. A retractable tape measure. Trust me. You don’t want to spend a whole road trip knitting and then get home and find that your sleeve is 5 inches too long. All that glorious car knitting time gone to waste!

That’s it! My absolute must-haves for my project bag. I promise I have a million more notions than this, but these 5 essential knitting tools are all I really need.

If you’re looking for good take-along knitting patterns, I recommend Downtime or Inanna. Both give beautiful results with minimal counting and the knitting is easy to read if you forget where you left off.